I message lots of people on dating sites. I usually just think the person is full of themselves enough to think I'm just hanging on their reply. What you need to do is — text the person and thank them for all the efforts that they put in arranging the date and spending the day. Being direct is not being a jerk. If you want to take an extra step to ensure no hard feelings you go out of your way to be polite. Not very many women in our culture are forward enough to ask for the date themselves for better and for worse usually for worse. I was looking at my OKC inbox last night and realized that over the years I had skipped over a not-small amount of messages
Breanna. as i mentioned previously, i love to please so i seek to ensure that you enjoy your time with me as much as possible. in order for me to give you the best experience that i possibly can, it is important to me that we get to know each other a little by chatting via email prior to meeting. this is so i can muster an idea of what turns you on and find out if there's anything that you'd particularly like to indulge in.
I am realizing more and more how often this gets confused for flirting and has begun to lead to a lot of misunderstandings.
Online Dating Etiquette: How To Reject Your Matches
Unfortunately, when I was single, I never really had anyone to teach me how to let someone down kindly. It is one of the most awkward situations when someone proposes to you and you have to say no on an online dating website. If the email seems genuine and personal, I believe you do owe that person the favor of a response. At that point, I stopped attending the events I would see him at and never again returned. If you are not interested, it is common place to simply ignore the message not respond. I'm a male in my late 30s and have always had a lot of female friends.